The ballsiest thing you can do is to stop caring about that thing you care about. To stop thinking you have to “figure it out.” To trust that life can handle it for you. Hop on that tightrope! Decide to not give a fuck, because you’re too busy living it up to care.
- Damian: I should probably go home soon and work.
- Me: When you go away, I'm going to think about you.
- Damian: What about me? About how much of a jerk I am for going away?
If comics are unhappy that someone might get triggered by a rape [joke], they can take that up with rapists, not survivors.
In other news, I’ve been taking my own advice & writing gratitude lists in my pink Moleskine every morning. All I can say is… WOW. This extremely simple act, which only takes a few minutes, has been completely transforming my day. All you need is some paper & a pen, & make it the first thing you do when you roll out of bed. It really sets you up to have an incredible day. In fact, I sincerely believe that generating so much positivity in the morning is helping attract even more loveliness into my life.